Not everyone is up for a big adventure. Some couples find it preferable to create a small and to the point, short micro-elopement in the Black Hills rather than a full-day experience. For Lance + Char, that’s exactly what the two had in mind.

Let’s talk about micro elopements—those perfectly small, wildly intentional wedding days that feel more like a dreamy adventure than a traditional “I do.” If you’re considering a micro elopement in the Black Hills of South Dakota, I’m already cheering you on.

This region is truly a hidden gem: wild, sacred, and full of moody pine forests, granite spires, and glowing golden light. It’s one of my favorite places to photograph couples because it offers both stunning scenery and sweet, quiet spaces for intimate moments. Not to mention, it’s where I call home.

So, if you’re daydreaming about getting married in the Black Hills with just your favorite people (or just each other!), here are my best tips from behind the camera lens:

Custer State Park Elopement | Black Hills in the Spring

Choose your backdrop first, not the date. This might sound a little backwards, but hear me out—when it comes to elopements, the place sets the pace. The Black Hills has so many breathtaking locations: Sylvan Lake, Custer State Park, Spearfish Canyon, and Black Elk Peak are just the beginning. But each spot shines differently depending on the season.

• Late spring and early summer: Everything is lush, green, and full of life. Early spring, you may need a backup plan because it can end up a little wintery. (Just like it did in this elopement for Char + Lance!)
• Fall: Gold tones light up the Hills—absolutely gorgeous for romantic photos.
• Winter: If you’re dreaming of a snowy pine-forest moment, the Hills totally deliver—but weather can be unpredictable.

Pick a location that feels like you, then we can plan around the best time of year to capture it in its full magic.

The Black Hills are popular, especially in the summer. If you’re craving those intimate, just-us vibes, consider planning for sunrise or a weekday ceremony. I promise you, the early alarm will be worth it when you’re exchanging vows with the light pouring through the trees and not a soul around.

That said, if you’re not a morning person, no matter how much coffee you have, you can also plan a sunset event! Don’t underestimate the blue hour after that golden sunset glow.

Want even more privacy? One of the things I love most is helping couples scout off-the-beaten-path spots that aren’t swarming with visitors but are still crazy beautiful. Trust your photographer—we know the secret trails!

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Just because you’re having a micro elopement doesn’t mean you have to skip the sentiment. In fact, these smaller celebrations give you space to lean in to the things that matter most. Maybe it’s:

• Handwritten vows you read privately before the ceremony
• A prayer or blessing said with your families back at your Airbnb
• A shared first dance under the pine trees with your favorite song playing from a little speaker

You get to design your day around your love story, not a rulebook.

I always encourage couples to turn their elopement into an entire experience, not just a quick ceremony. Spend the day hiking, paddleboarding, picnicking, or watching the stars by a campfire. The Black Hills have so much to offer—from wildlife drives to cozy cabins and dreamy photo ops.

Want to make it even more special? Book a private chef dinner at your cabin, splurge on a vintage Jeep tour, or plan a stargazing session after dark. I’ll be there to document the magic.

Permits, Passes & Park Etiquette Matter

Even micro-weddings can require permits, especially if you’re saying your vows in state or national park lands like Custer or Black Elk Wilderness. The rules exist to protect the land—and your experience.

Quick checklist:

• Check with Custer State Park or the U.S. Forest Service for ceremony or photography permits.
• Consider group size limits (often under 25 people).
• Practice Leave No Trace—yes, that includes no confetti or fake florals!

I will say, generally speaking, CSP does not require permits for smaller events, but there is also not a real reservation process. If you’re not sure where to start, I’m happy to help you figure out the paperwork and connect all the calls to local ranger stations. It’s part of the behind-the-scenes magic of making your day go smoothly.

Don’t forget to dress for the Terrain (and the Weather!)

I always tell my couples: You can be both fancy and practical. Long flowing gowns look amazing in photos—but if we’re hiking, climbing rocks, or wandering through fields, you’ll want good shoes and maybe a layer or two for warmth.

Think: hiking boots under the dress, a cozy wrap or shawl, and maybe even a backup pair of shoes for muddy trails. The Black Hills weather can shift fast, so it’s best to be ready for a little bit of everything.

Char + Lance came well prepared for their spring elopement. While they were aiming for sunshine and lake views, they fully embraced the foggy moody mist and the photos were stunning!